Not sure which type of divorce is right for you? There are several ways to end a marriage, and the best option depends on your specific situation. Our Process Match Quiz asks 6 quick questions and recommends the approach that fits your circumstances, budget, and goals.
How It Works
The quiz evaluates your situation across six key factors and matches you with one of five divorce processes:
- DIY / Pro se filing — You handle everything yourself using court forms. Best for simple situations where both spouses fully agree.
- Uncontested with attorney — You agree on terms and hire an attorney to review and file. Adds legal protection at a moderate cost.
- Mediation — A neutral mediator helps you work through disagreements together. Preserves relationships and gives both parties a voice.
- Collaborative divorce — Each spouse has their own attorney, but everyone commits to staying out of court. Often includes financial specialists.
- Contested litigation — A judge decides unresolved issues. Necessary when there are safety concerns or a total breakdown in communication.
Answer 6 quick questions about your situation. We'll recommend the divorce process that best fits your needs, budget, and goals.
Why the Right Process Matters
Choosing the wrong divorce process can cost thousands of dollars and months of time. A couple with a simple, agreed-upon divorce who hires two litigation attorneys will overspend dramatically. Conversely, a couple with serious custody disputes who tries to handle everything themselves may end up back in court anyway, having wasted time and created more conflict.
The quiz considers your level of agreement, whether children are involved, asset complexity, safety concerns, relationship goals, and budget to find the process that balances cost, speed, and outcome quality for your specific situation.
What to Do After the Quiz
Once you receive your recommendation, use our Divorce Cost Calculator to estimate the total cost for your state. Then read through our divorce process guides for step-by-step instructions on how to proceed. If your situation involves children, our Child Support Estimator can help you understand potential support obligations.