How to Co-Parent During the Back-to-School Season

co-parenting back to school

Table of Contents Know What Your Custody Order Actually Says About School School Records, Communication, and the FERPA Default Splitting Back-to-School Costs Without a Fight A Practical Co-Parenting Back to School Checklist Frequently Asked Questions Co-parenting back to school is one of the hardest seasons on any custody calendar. Summer schedules end. Bus routes, sports … Read more

Virtual Visitation: Video Calls and Digital Co-Parenting

virtual visitation co-parenting

Table of Contents What the Law Actually Says About Electronic Parenting Time Building a Virtual Visitation Co-Parenting Schedule That Holds Up Enforcing and Modifying Digital Contact Frequently Asked Questions Virtual visitation co-parenting has moved from a novelty to a standard clause in American custody orders. Courts now routinely write video calls, texting, and messaging into … Read more

How to Keep Communication Professional With Your Ex

professional communication with ex

Table of Contents Why Courts Care How You Talk to Your Co-Parent The BIFF Method for Professional Communication With Ex Partners Co-Parenting Apps: What They Cost and Why Judges Order Them Practical Steps to Build Professional Communication Habits Frequently Asked Questions Professional communication with ex partners is one of the hardest skills divorced parents learn. … Read more

Managing Extracurricular Activities Between Two Homes

extracurricular activities two homes

Table of Contents Who Decides Whether the Child Enrolls? Splitting the Cost of Extracurricular Activities Two Homes Support Building Activity Rules Into Your Parenting Plan Frequently Asked Questions Extracurricular activities two homes must coordinate can quickly become the hardest part of co-parenting after divorce. Soccer practice falls on Dad’s Tuesday. The recital lands on Mom’s … Read more

5 Common Divorce Mistakes and How to Avoid Them

divorce tips

Table of Contents 1. Treating the Financial Side as an Afterthought 2. Making Custody About Winning Instead of the Children 3. Guessing at Alimony Instead of Understanding the Rules 4. Misunderstanding How Child Support Actually Works 5. Filing Before You Understand the Process Practical Divorce Tips to Keep You Out of Trouble Bringing It Together … Read more

How to Build a Custody Exchange Routine

custody exchange routine

Table of Contents Why a Custody Exchange Routine Belongs in Your Parenting Plan Building the Routine: Location, Timing, and Cost Action Steps to Make the Custody Exchange Routine Stick Frequently Asked Questions A custody exchange routine is the set repeated steps two parents follow every time a child moves between households. It covers the where, … Read more

Co-Parenting Through Your Child’s Teenage Years

Table of Contents Why Co-Parenting Teenagers Requires a Different Plan What Courts Say About a Teenager’s Preference Money, Cars, and When Support Actually Ends Action Steps for Co-Parenting Teenagers Now Frequently Asked Questions Co-parenting teenagers is a different job than co-parenting a six-year-old, and most parenting plans were never written for it. The schedule that … Read more

How to Handle Gift Giving as Co-Parents

gift giving co-parents

Table of Contents What the Law Says About Gifts and Child Support Building Gift Rules Into Your Parenting Plan Practical Rules for Gift Giving Co-Parents Frequently Asked Questions Gift giving co-parents face a problem that never comes up in intact households. Two homes, two budgets, and two sets of feelings collide over one child’s birthday … Read more

Setting Consistent Rules Between Two Households

Table of Contents What Courts Actually Require in a Parenting Plan How to Build Consistent Rules Two Households Can Follow When You Cannot Agree: Costs and Professional Help Action Steps for the Next 30 Days Frequently Asked Questions consistent rules two households sounds simple until you live it. One home has a 9 p.m. bedtime. … Read more